Boundaries 过犹不及:如何建立你的心理界线 (Chinese Edition)

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  • ISBN :9787550730908
  • Format :Paperback
  • Pricing Attribute :NETT
  • Page Count :232
  • Weight :472 gm
  • Publisher :Miscellaneous
  • Author :Henry Cloud

Description :

人们常常专注在要有爱心、避免自私自利,却忘记自己的有限和界限。他们往往会问:“对别人没界限不是很自私吗?”

“我要怎么回答那些需要我爱心、精力、金钱帮助的人呢?”

“为什么设立界限会让我感到愧疚或恐惧?”“我可以在设限后仍是个有爱心的人吗?”

想要有一个平衡健全的生活,明确的“界限”是很重要的、这是个人产权的分界线,指出你应该为哪些东西负责。它可以定义你是什和,或者,你不是什么。

界限深深地影响我们生活的各个层面。

身全上的界限:帮助我们决定,在何种情况上,谁可以碰我们的身体?

心理上的界限:给予我们拥有个人思想与见解的自由。

情绪上的界限:帮助我们处理自己的情绪,避免来自别人有害与操纵性的情绪。

属灵上的界限:帮助我们分辨上帝的间念与人个的意愿有何不同?

Many citations of this book are from Holy Bible. Because these citations are recognized by all as general truth, they are actually the same as the essences of Chinese Confucian thoughts. We need to uphold domestic traditional culture but we should assimilate world advanced cultures too.

Based on profound psychology theories, this book lists lots of cases and explains how to set psychology boundaries for complicated interpersonal relationship. This means, actually, to set the life criteria and behavior rules.